it don't never go away
all that "replace the root with another root" psychobabble bullshit is wrong.
a real alcoholic drinks because they enjoy it. yes they may be insecure, yes they may do it to be creative/feel social. but in the end, what keeps the alcoholic coming back is that they love to drink, and those black out nights that should cement in them a desire not to drink are barely remembered, so when weighing the option of whether or not to pick up a beer, the good times come out on top. if you want your friend to stop drinking, he needs to start doing normal things that make him feel elated and accomplished while being challenged and having fun. alcohol provides those things without the effort, and it's really all anyone ever wants out of drinking it
it don't never go away
all that "replace the root with another root" psychobabble bullshit is wrong.
a real alcoholic drinks because they enjoy it. yes they may be insecure, yes they may do it to be creative/feel social. but in the end, what keeps the alcoholic coming back is that they love to drink, and those black out nights that should cement in them a desire not to drink are barely remembered, so when weighing the option of whether or not to pick up a beer, the good times come out on top. if you want your friend to stop drinking, he needs to start doing normal things that make him feel elated and accomplished while being challenged and having fun. alcohol provides those things without the effort, and it's really all anyone ever wants out of drinking it
AA is really just a church trying to get you to accept Christ to combat your addiction. Plus everyone I know who ever went to AA or NA winds up crashing again because they're hanging out with other people with addictions and when one crashes they all do.
AA is really just a church trying to get you to accept Christ to combat your addiction. Plus everyone I know who ever went to AA or NA winds up crashing again because they're hanging out with other people with addictions and when one crashes they all do.
how would you describe itI have been sober for 14 years, went to AA for the first year of my sobriety, while AA can be very different State to State or even meeting to meeting you are all very misinformed about it
how would you describe it