I'm sorry you don't understand if you want a really hot girl who is into fashion, you need to dress the part.
But I'm sure you think just wearing the same old shit can get all the same stupid sluts. I'm sorry some of us like to go for the gold medals. Those chicks require a fashionable man. Someone not comfortable showing off his figure is definitely below them.
Why are you trying to justify your homosexuality?
Just say you're gay and be done with it. All of the women I know say dudes in skinny jeans are either emo fags or gay. They're actually laughing at you.