I am posting this information for the benefit anyone who isn't stuck in a beta circle of life like Falhawk and others
women are never attracted to men who can "support themselves" or the "woman"
they will of course settle for these men when all other options run out in life, like dating a rockstar or a millionaire CEO, but women are never attracted to this
because let's face it, there's nothing attractive about being a boring, typical, everyday person who pays his bills and makes his mortgage payments on time
no woman grows up in today's world thinking, man, one day I really want to settle down with a typical average joe with almost no exciting qualities whatsoever because god damn that makes me hot
of course they all convince these men they're "attracted" to them just to keep things civil, and that's where sad neckbeards like Falhawk get the unfortunate and inaccurate idea that their 9-5 job and fact they own a cottage somewhere somehow attracts them to their wife and/or girlfriend who usually ends up fucking somebody else, for example, the mailman