someone definitely is
I join and then a few minutes-hours later, the server is no longer in my list. Someone is definitely kicking me and trying to cover it up. I'm in a lot of discord servers and that's the only one it happens with. I'm not surprised.
there are only three people there that could possibly kick you. Me, bam, or helenkeller.
i know it's not me, and i'm pretty sure neither bam or helenkeller would do that either, so you're full of shit, and you're just being an asshole.