These drives are run by women, yes.
I have donated cash before for a few charity things here but this direct approach with specifics threw me off.
I am asking how you handle or would handle this stuff in your office.
And I am not going to pretend to be some saint like some of you here who would do this without second thought. God forbid I spend 45+ minutes of my own time going to a mall and do this for some family who had too many children to support and that I will never see.
I gladly contribute to TW, my priorities must just be wrong.
Donate something useful to said family, a pack of condoms, a wire coat hanger & a guide on adopting out kids.
Don't lie about it, just say no.
I don't have an excuse, I just don't feel like doing all that.
At my previous workplace I said no to babyshowers and other things. I feel differently here, because we have a 360 degree feedback process where we get input from 15 coworkers. I know it shouldn't come into play, but I have seen personal things like this pop up before on assessments here. Especially with women.