3: Cut a V pattern, to get rid of the current scar on my hand to shorthen the width of my hand to make it less visible that I am missing a finger.
Honestly, I have met 3 people with only 3 fingers and one thumb on a hand. Two of them were missing a finger on the hand that I shook. I never even noticed it until late in the meeting and their hand was really visible.Since you said you going with this:
They cut off your middle finger + a small pizza slice of your hand past the middle finger and then sew it up?
I guess that sounds like a pretty good option, but based on the limited pictures you provided (get some more angles and show us the back of your hand), i would think getting it cut off at the second knuckle so you had a straight stump would be the best option. Or just getting it cut off completely but leaving the hand alone. I think it would look better to have a hand missing 1 finger, vs a small weird looking hand that appears to have only ever had 3 fingers.
The plate they referred to, is the back of my hand I assumed.(although it looks like a group of bones)
id go for the stub
you seriously dont notice it when people have stubs unless youre staring at their hands
whatever you decide, i hope it turns out for the best man.Honestly, I have met 3 people with only 3 fingers and one thumb on a hand. Two of them were missing a finger on the hand that I shook. I never even noticed it until late in the meeting and their hand was really visible.
If you think about it logically. When you meet someone for the first time and shake hands or exchange pleasentries, you are more worried about youself then you are about them.(especially if you are in sales)
How many times have you meet or been introduced to someone and you forgot their name 10 seconds later.
So if I shorten the gap between my ring finger and my index finger, I should be gold. Plus the fact the I honestly want this finger gone at this point. I have had 2 knuckles, my platella(knee cap), collar bone and my elbow broke. Plus alot of stiches, sprains and twisted ankles and NONE compare to the pain I have gone thru with this finger. It aches right now really bad just from typing this. The new skin that has grown on the finger part burns like crazy and the scar on the back of my hand itches like crazy.(but hurts when I scratch it)
I just want it off as soon as possible.
BTW, LET'S GO PENS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
They're talking about the growth plate of the bone. Every bone has one; it's the end of the bone to which new bone growth is added.
doctors are morons in my experience.
get another opinion if you haven't already.
Why would another opinion be useful, if doctors are morons?