I wish I had know all this back in the day. I would have walked up to pretty girls and said, "Chad is going to pump and dump you, I won't." That's basically what I did in my profile by saying I had No Debt. But it didn't work because women only swipe right on 4% of men, and they didn't even see my profile. That's ok, I've found a great GF and we're coming up on 2 years. The hot looking chicks eventually go out with a "good guy" but they still want Chad, so they dump the good guy. Not only that, the women have a bunch of rules for the good guy but not for Chad, who wants to spread his seed with many girls, so he pumps and dumps. That's the problem, the system doesn't won't educate women about this, and the USA and Germany is fine with letting everyone in to keep the population up. It's the bitches fault for wanted the top men based on looks and money and ignore good guys. If you know all this, then you can play the system, which is what men are doing by not getting married.
Men, concentrate on yourself and have fun. I play GTA V sitting next to my GF while we watch brain dead TV shows, watch hockey, play in 2 bands, go see drag races once a year, go on vacations, get buzzed if I want, she'll drive the car if we're out, and it's all good.