I dont think there is anything extreme about the pro-life point of view.
If women had no options for contraception, then i could see the point to abortions. There are currently a dozen forms of contraception for women, on top of abstinence. So they have options other than murder, they are just too lazy or stupid to use them and personal responsibility is not in the female vocabulary. Should women have control over their bodies? Absolutely. Should a woman not have a doctor suck the brain out of a pre-born human being and have its body torn apart with forceps because they are too lazy to take a pill or suck a dick? absolutely. If they can't make the proper choice, then the choice should be made for them. Don't like it? Take a pill...buy rubbers, stick it in her ass...