[G/F] WHo is Smarter than me causing Trouble

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I am all for girls who have their shit together but this is going a bit far. Yesterday morning when I went to go to the bank and get breakfast for the two of us I left my computer on and didn't lock it, thinking she was going to stay in bed for awhile. Big mistake, I get home and see she is on my computer using my account and notice that her attitude is really negative right away. Aw fuck)

I let her use my computer but on a separate account to her avoid looking at my porn etc. Well while I was gone she ran thru it and checks to see my recent documents which is porn, check my book marks and systematically deletes all my root folders containing porn that I have recently looked at, deletes my bookmarks that I have sort of hidden. She even went through a seperate folder that has my personal photo's of my ex and deletes those. I was fucking pissed as those are one of the kind shit.

I mean I understand, porn = bad, but that doesn't give her a right to delete MY shit on my machine! I ran restore on my pc thinking it would restore the machine and files, i didn't restore anything and proceed to fuck up my install so I spent last night reinstalling xp (sat night fun).

The girl I am dating is really smart, going places etc, also has a photographic memory but hates the idea of me looking at porn b/c she is self conscious of herself, but I never let it interfere with our relationship. Oh yeh, she was also PMSing, so that is why I think she took it to a whole new level...

Options:

Dump her even tho she might be the 'one'

Put everything on hold/break?

Continue as normal?


Cliffs:

pmsing G/F with photographic memory jacks my comp, deletes porn/exes

fucks up my comp by causing me to try to restore it.

What to do TW:? ??
 
if you'd come to TW to begin with, we could have told you how to get that porn back and not fuck up your computer.
 
Is the relationship really going anywhere if you have to lock and hide your computer before you leave the house?

Dump her and be honest to the next one.
 
Asshole, there's are file restore applications. Now it's too late, asshole.

It's not too late. Chances are the fresh XP install went over where the previous install was. You could easily get back about 90% of the stuff even after a reinstall. Doing a system restore was useless though.
 
She only did it because she thought you were beta enough to take it. Take a stand against feminism and prove her wrong!
 
It's not too late. Chances are the fresh XP install went over where the previous install was. You could easily get back about 90% of the stuff even after a reinstall. Doing a system restore was useless though.

I have the pics of my ex backed up on my laptop, the rest of the porn (while good) is not worth the trouble. I also used a restore app to get some of them back. Still I feel violated about the whole ordeal.
 
How can she be "the one" if she is seriously breaching your trust by deleting things she doesn't deem appropriate on your computer?

Her being self-concious means she's fat.
 
I had that happen w/ the ex one time. I told her it's a violation of my privacy blah blah moral outrage, you're A. never allowed to touch my computer again, had a ban on her coming to my house for 6months because I told her she can't be trusted, and B. if any invasion of privacy ever happens again your ass is to the curb. Also C., hand over your laptop cause now I'm going through your shit.
 
you are a pussy

you deserve everything you get from this woman until you grow a set of balls


My suggestion to you: go through and burn some of her clothes. Tell her that you found her clothes morally objectionable, or whatever fucking excuse she used to delete your porn.
 
punish her for it. don't talk to her and hang out with your friends, preferabbly girls. That will make her jealous and realize you don't need her.
 
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