Thanks everyone. The RhinoRush is working great so far, and a Co-Worker says it works better than the stuff the urologist prescribed. The ingredients are listed on the web site.
Laurie is too lazy and stupid to try and take over any accounts. Getting on the accounts involves signature guarantee stamps, and she wouldn't have a clue how to do that. All the bank accounts are in my name and my dad has no credit cards. The way I give Laurie money to take care of my dad is I transfer money to her checking account. When my dad passes, I just stop transferring money.
I think Laurie is really kind around the new guy, and he goes along with her controlling behavior. She's not coming back to me, it's over this time because he's a Christian, he's building her a house, and they're getting married next June. It's the Ho Playbook all over again for her, but it will end at that point because she won't be having kids. Then it's just traveling and her getting on his nerves while they're church wackos.
Here's a pic of me, my dad, and Ashley at a recent horse show. In my world Ashley is my top priority along with my dad.