[First Dates] Where to?

I think I can speak for all us nerdvirgins when I say...
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There is this bar in Chicago called Guthries - they have a bunch of board games, and it's just a small chill little place in Wrigleyville. This is by far the best first date place I ever went to. Chicks seem to love the fact that it's completely different than most clubby / lounge first dates that dbag dudes in Chicago typically go for (which I admit to doing for the standard skanks because it's what they wanted / expected). Something about playing chutes and ladders with a girl you're just getting to know eases any awkwardness :)

So, for those of you around my neck of the woods, check out Guthries if you think you have a quality chick on your hands! I'm married now, so no more first dates, but I did go there with my wife early on and we go back occasionally.
 
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NoGodForMe said:
And one more thing, girls have been to all these places already, so they don't care you're paying big bucks to take them there. In fact, they expect it. For example, my daughter is 17, and she goes to more restaurants than I do. We have food here at home, but that's not good enough, no no, she heads out with her BF to Lefty's, a chicken wing restaurant.
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rofl, only the best for your daughter.... lefty's chicken shack. clearly she's a high roller.
 
NoGodForMe said:
And one more thing, girls have been to all these places already, so they don't care you're paying big bucks to take them there. In fact, they expect it. For example, my daughter is 17, and she goes to more restaurants than I do. We have food here at home, but that's not good enough, no no, she heads out with her BF to Lefty's, a chicken wing restaurant.
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Well, if she dates a colored boy, she's going to have to learn to like chicken and watermellon. And physical abuse.
 
XTasy said:
wtf noob alert

I thought everyone knows movie sucks for first date. You're not even talking to each other. You want to be talking the whole time. Cut out the movie, grab the dinner only, keep it short and don't drag out the night.
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I take girls to bad movies and make jokes throughout the movie. This was my first or second date for the last three long term relationships:

1. Mission Impossible 3: I was in when she laughed at my jokes about tom cruise fucking the dead girl in the helicopter.
2. Hitman: I pointed to every single character in the movie and said "oop, he's gonna die soon". By halfway through the movie, she was so uninterested in hitman, we started making out.
3. Wanted: This was a tough one, because the girl is kind of freaked out by blood. So I made fun of her for "picking this movie". I'm still dating her.

After the movie, go to a bar or something. Or make out in the car. Be spontaneous, funny, and not serious. Act a little childish. If you're having fun, she'll have fun.

If you do just go to a bar or restaurant, bounce to a few places. Maybe get ice cream. It's more spontaneous, and it gives her more memories of going to different places with you, even though they're all from a single night.

Good luck dude!
 
im tellin ya... go to the local fondue place.
1. its different
2. there is something to 'do' during dinner
3. it takes about 2 hours so theres plenty of talk time
4. fresh chocolate covered stuff for desert
5. chicks dig it
 
TF_Grungir said:
im tellin ya... go to the local fondue place.
1. its different
2. there is something to 'do' during dinner
3. it takes about 2 hours so theres plenty of talk time
4. fresh chocolate covered stuff for desert
5. chicks dig it
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6. besides, where else can you pay $120 bucks for a 1/2 pound of cheese!
 
I just got back from a first date. We went for a walk. I let her choose the route, so I could judge how it went by how far we walked. Half an hour walk = epic fail. We had a good time and walked for about two hours, and at the end I put out my hand for a handshake but just used it to pull her close and kiss her. I think it defused the whole "ok it's good-bye gotta kiss gotta kiss gotta kiss" awkwardness, and I think she got the joke of it too. I wouldn't go for a dinner on the first date nor a movie. I think the best thing is either to keep it simple or do some kind of activity, like bowling or something.
 
tuxedo said:
I take girls to bad movies and make jokes throughout the movie. This was my first or second date for the last three long term relationships:

1. Mission Impossible 3: I was in when she laughed at my jokes about tom cruise fucking the dead girl in the helicopter.
2. Hitman: I pointed to every single character in the movie and said "oop, he's gonna die soon". By halfway through the movie, she was so uninterested in hitman, we started making out.
3. Wanted: This was a tough one, because the girl is kind of freaked out by blood. So I made fun of her for "picking this movie". I'm still dating her.

After the movie, go to a bar or something. Or make out in the car. Be spontaneous, funny, and not serious. Act a little childish. If you're having fun, she'll have fun.

If you do just go to a bar or restaurant, bounce to a few places. Maybe get ice cream. It's more spontaneous, and it gives her more memories of going to different places with you, even though they're all from a single night.

Good luck dude!
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so the cum dumpsters you call ex girlfriends were impressed by your douchebaggery in a movie theater.

congrats?
 
tuxedo said:
I take girls to bad movies and make jokes throughout the movie. This was my first or second date for the last three long term relationships:

1. Mission Impossible 3: I was in when she laughed at my jokes about tom cruise fucking the dead girl in the helicopter.
2. Hitman: I pointed to every single character in the movie and said "oop, he's gonna die soon". By halfway through the movie, she was so uninterested in hitman, we started making out.
3. Wanted: This was a tough one, because the girl is kind of freaked out by blood. So I made fun of her for "picking this movie". I'm still dating her.

After the movie, go to a bar or something. Or make out in the car. Be spontaneous, funny, and not serious. Act a little childish. If you're having fun, she'll have fun.

If you do just go to a bar or restaurant, bounce to a few places. Maybe get ice cream. It's more spontaneous, and it gives her more memories of going to different places with you, even though they're all from a single night.

Good luck dude!
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LOL
 
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