Wait...they are thanking you for not leaving your wife or something? I don't get it...
Was she a mopey sack of shit at work before you brought her the happy stick?
I don't think so, this is a new rig and she started as capt... she is pretty hardcore but I don't think I said or did anything for the crew to tell me "thanks for not having her kick our asses"... that is actually the root of the WTF in the thread to be honest. I bought them 3k worth of calling cards for the Indonesions to call home, and they hadn't talked to their loved ones in 3 weeks so maybe that is it. But I didnt think much of that.
What does your gf do on the rig? Is it an oil rig?
I have this picture in my head of a very dirty woman wearing flannel and a hard hat.
I DIDNT DO ANYTHING EXCEPT LAVISH THEM WITH $3000 WORTH OF GIFTS
I DIDNT THINK ANYTHING OF IT THOUGH SO IF THAT IS THE REASON I AM VERY SURPRISED INDEED