I dated.. mm not really dated more or less just went out a couple times -with a girl who had HUGE gauged earrings awhile back. She said straight from the get-go how most guys she dates say stuff like "you can get surgery for that", but she was emphatic that she wanted a down to earth guy even though she's going to have asshole ear when she gets older. No pics, she got fat anyway.
Anyway, I have some diamond studs I put in every now and then because I look good with them, but no way in hell would I ever get them stretched.