Sounds like solid ground for an healthy relationship, kudos and congrats...
That's complicated. Her family is very conservative about such things. Also her ex is a total asshole.
okay, so she has no kids, but she still deals with her ex-husband
first red flag
and you didn't tell her family because?
That's complicated.
we've been together for a year
she's also crazy , smart, successful, and she's been divorced and not into the big wedding thing since she's already done that. We're town halling it.