to put it in nerd terms, women wanting to change you is similar to them playing a video game.
If they can't beat the game, they just get frustrated and quit. But if/when they beat the game(get you to change) it's vab, nothing left to prove, game over.
The key is to string them along for as long as you can to make them think they're getting somewhere, so they'll keep pumping in quarters(read: put out).
Sounds like your replay value was 0.0
none the less, sorry to hear
good, honest women are always hard to find.