Yeah, but black people don't push their adopted kids to be black if they arent
I'll just leave this here:I was thinking about the adoption thing yesterday, because I kinda agreed with Val's post when I first saw it
But then I thought about all the straight couples, married and otherwise, who are terrible/abusive parents and ruin their kids lives...and that moved me back into the 'people should need to pass some kind of test or apply for a license to be parents' camp
there are lots of gay couples who are saner, smarter and more suitable to raise children than some of the oxygen thieves out there
Extensive data available from more than 30 years of research reveal that children raised by gay and lesbian parents have demonstrated resilience with regard to social, psychological, and sexual health despite economic and legal disparities and social stigma. Many studies have demonstrated that children's well-being is affected much more by their relationships with their parents, their parents' sense of competence and security, and the presence of social and economic support for the family than by the gender or the sexual orientation of their parents. Lack of opportunity for same-gender couples to marry adds to families’ stress, which affects the health and welfare of all household members. Because marriage strengthens families and, in so doing, benefits children’s development, children should not be deprived of the opportunity for their parents to be married. Paths to parenthood that include assisted reproductive techniques, adoption, and foster parenting should focus on competency of the parents rather than their sexual orientation.
The only lawful sexual connection is the marriage bed. All other sex activity is whoremongery and adultery, which will damn the soul forever in Hell. Heb. 13:4. Decadent, depraved, degenerate and debauched America, having bought the lie that It's OK to be gay, has thereby changed the truth of God into a lie, and now worships and serves the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen! Rom. 1:25. But the Word of God abides. Better to be a eunuch if the will of God be so, and make sure of Heaven. Mat. 19:12. Better to be blind or lame, than to be cast into Hell, into the fire that never shall be quenched. Mk. 9:43-48. Abstain, you fools.
So heterosexual couples who don't want to have kids shouldn't be allowed to marry either?
How is this relevant to marriage between men who aren't interested in marrying women?
So should it be illegal to marry if you don't want kids, or not?I think it's next to pointless for people to get married who don't want children. I think that the financial benefits were put in place, like I said, to facilitate raising children and perpetuating a family.
So should it be illegal to marry if you don't want kids, or not?
So should it be illegal to marry if you don't want kids, or not?
Don't be retarded. Of course not. The idea is that if government benefits are applied for the benefit of child rearing, then the benefits should be extended when children are present and not on the basis of a marriage.
I don't think that the financial benefits of marriage should be afforded to people other than for raising a family.
what about real estate ramifications and the housing crisis
it's good for everyone economically speaking to encourage two people to share a home
What if two people want to marry for non-financial reasons (e.g. to become each other's next of kin), and without intent to raise kids? Should that be legal?
It shouldn't be a question of legality.
Seriously what part of this are you not getting?
Marriage isn't a requirement for that
Marriage is a legal concept, of course it's a question of legality.
Should it be legal or not?
um, yeah, but marriage also isn't a requirement for having kids. the two just happen to totally randomly be statistically correlated and one just happens to totally randomly predict the other
it's called incentivization
Sure, I don't disagree. I just find it interesting that the incentives for kids come through incentivizing marriage instead of directly incentivizing children.
what about real estate ramifications and the housing crisis
it's good for everyone economically speaking to encourage two people to share a home