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Originally Posted by Vanster
Match.com is bull****, just saying.
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Van,
You are in no condition to invite a woman into your life right now. Take a break, give it some time, and relearn who you are before inviting a woman in.
When a male goes on the 'hunt', we lower our standards, and when we get older and "don't want to die alone", there is a rush to get someone, anyone really, to keep us company and that only invites more problems into our lives, and consequently, a waste of valuable time.
Take a break, dude, and find out who you are. You appear to be living in the past and are very concerned with image. You comment a LOT about how great things were 20-years-ago (holding onto the past) and comment a lot about how the world thinks of us, or how important it is to make a mark before you die.
Just... chill for a while. Take a year off. Or don't. It's your life.