"Do you need and extra hand?" lol you dork.

Originally Posted by Swensonator

So I dont have much experience dating latino chicks. Taking one out tonight. She's got that stereotypical domination complex it seems like. First she asks I pay, sure no problem. Then she says "yeah there's this italian place I make guys take me to every time".

So, do I make the dick move to assert my alpha status and go somewhere else, possibly pissing her off right off the bat, or cave for a first date if it means higher chance to get laid?

I'm leaning towards the former.

simple response: "i don't feel like going there. i'd rather just grab a couple drinks. i'll be by at 9 to pick you up."

don't obey her. do what YOU want. lead her. be a man.

edit:

Took her home after the meal so she could masturbate (and yes I asked if she needed an extra hand) and go over to her friends house in scottsdale.

wait, what?

Originally Posted by RabbitRabbi

"Do you need and extra hand?" lol you dork.

I just spit out my beer, hahaha...

Nobody can possibly be that inept.

so she makes you take her out to dinner, and is going to her friends house tonight to get wasted & **** some random shes got on the line


great job

Originally Posted by confidential

if you really want good advice, stay home watch a movie and masturbate

trust me on this

Originally Posted by veorx

so she makes you take her out to dinner, and is going to her friends house tonight to get wasted & **** some random shes got on the line


great job

I'm getting laid tonight

pics you ******

Originally Posted by Yankee

dude, just walk away now

You're getting played, try to stay out of jewelry stores.

This is sage advice.

However, there is an option that involves you alpha-ing up and walking away. She's obviously not worth a long term relationship and you only seem to be in it for the ****ing anyway...so I suggest playing a little game.

Treat her like crap. Sack up and control everything about the night. Where you eat, when you pick her up, etc. I'd even make her pay. Worst case scenario she leaves halfway through the date . Best case scenario is that it makes her ***** so wet you will still be ****ing her this time tomorrow.

She is really high maintenance and she needs someone to stand their ground with her. I'd imagine laying down the law alpha male style would make her horny beyond belief.

Either way I wouldn't make this a long term thing.

Originally Posted by Swensonator

Heh, no. Just weighing the chances of getting laid, vs being an alpha.

I think you are looking at it the wrong way. Being an alpha increases your chance of getting laid.

It's not beingherslave == getting laid vs being alpha == getting nothing. It's more like beingherslave == getting played vs being alpha == ****ing her brains out or keeping your dignity.

gaaaaaaay

i just realized my advice was a page late. gg reading the thread

Originally Posted by Hudson

Swensonator = Alpha or Beta male?

Time will tell

Beta is second. Omega would be the last...

... then again, the Beta doesn't breed either.

link you should come back to irc

I gotta laugh at all this "alpha male" ****.

If you feel you have to do "the alpha thing", then you're not a goddamn alpha male, and you never will be.

Alpha is not what you do. It's what you are.

I could write a wall of text, but I'll try to keep it short.
Yes, she has the looks, has 50 guys in her phone, can get laid any time she wants.
What's she's looking for from you is "fun" and then you might get sex.
She didn't **** on the first date so she doesn't feel like a slut.

If you have "The Look" then you can treat her like **** because she'll want to **** you just to see what it's like. Otherwise it will fizzle.

One day her looks will wear off, she'll have 4 kids, no husband around, live in an apartment, and the phone will stop ringing. She may be in school now, but she'll get bored with it and quit.

A real alpha would have taken her to the place she wanted to eat at. Then when the waiter came to ask what you'd like to have, you'd remove your shades and look her right in the eyes and wink. Then immediately pushed yourself away from the table, suplexed her onto it, and taken her right there. Pop your collar and toss a fifty down on her and laugh as you walk out.

remember, if she says "oh papi" while riding you that you are going to bust all up in her. Her goal is to get a kid with you and take your monies.


no glove, no love.

take here where you want - just say something like - im not most guys.. and something like "most guys are no longer dating you, now lets go to X

**** that girl, get what you can if you so choose and get out, thats bs. thank god im no longer single.

I mean, she's not even 21 yet.

lick it, stick it, cya later bye.