No Laurie For Me (NLFM)
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He has to be a very needy romantic to put a ring on it and build her a house. When she cheats it will probably be found out since she's not very sharp. Their church will put them into some kind of restorative counseling and Lorie will somehow work out in her mind that the whole ordeal plus counseling made their relationship stronger and see it as how they've tested a great trial, and now they know for sure God wants them together. Of course, this will mostly be in her mind. He will just find out then emotionally fade while forcing a smile in church. Honestly, it's a horror.
Can you imagine how many people NGFM could command if he had a bad heart? Like, if he went all Jim Bakker with Laurie as his Tammy Faye?
He's too good for that shit but Laurie strikes me as a complete Tammy Faye type.
Check some of this shit out...
That is some really messed up stuff.
They all seem like that at the start.
this is amazing
lol
Brasstax is the worst poster
This, she's already been to counseling at the church. I don't know if it was with him or not. She wanted me to do counseling again. It never happened because we did it 27 years ago when she caused the divorce, and it didn't matter. In a way we did have counseling because we went to the dinner in Ocala with my daughter and Laurie did all the talking saying how bad things were. That was Laurie's way of justifying her breaking up because she wants a guy who is a pastor of a church and to be married with what I call a nuclear button to push.
Laurie could justify her current cheating by saying she wasn't married and it was dating, but it is fucked up that she cheated on Danny just because they had an argument. Then she's with someone else the moment he leaves for Texas but justifies that by saying it wasn't as good and she really wanted Danny. Always justifying her actions.
This is called Hypergamy, where the girl is always looking to marry up or looking for better. Chicks on the dating apps do this, by always looking for someone better and never settling for a "good guy" or "beta" who will treat them right. The "alpha" males will date a girl for 3 weeks, have sex, then leave.
I talk to my GF about this, saying it took me 2 months to find her and that the other chicks missed out. They swiped left based on looks and didn't even read my profile. If you look at the text of my profile, it said, "Financially stable, No debt No loans." Even with that in the profile, I was getting no responses.
I know, that's why I'm watching all the videos that talk about what and what not to do with a woman. In fact, I show some of the videos to the GF and tell her we should have her son watch them.
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This is amazing GG Rob, you have 'the look'
Maybe this is karma, or only a just reward for hard work?
Either way, I'm glad you finally got to ditch Laurie, she messed u up for a long long time.
The downside is we will never get the old NGFM posting style again, I think that bird has flown.
dang even pre ditch-Laurie NGFM got more pussy than me
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bowl of blood
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why is laurie ur fathers caretaker
grats on finding a new companion very inspiring etc but why is this old woman who you apparently have no commitment to whatsoever taking care of ur family members? that seems a little odd to me or extremely odd tbh
unrelated question do you still believe in the matrix?
grats on finding a new companion very inspiring etc but why is this old woman who you apparently have no commitment to whatsoever taking care of ur family members? that seems a little odd to me or extremely odd tbh
unrelated question do you still believe in the matrix?
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one day when you get a long-term girlfriend or wife, you'll find that relationships aren't the same as hit it and quit it any longer
bowl of blood
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dont @ me unless ur iq is above 80
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R - I know. Needed to type all this out so I know what happened. Talked about this a few pages ago. It evolved into what is happening today. You see, before July of 2019, Laurie was still OK with me. She had forgiven me for not marrying her or being a church nut. Maybe a time line will help.
August 2017 - Laurie crashes her car on the way to see Ashley. The dog dies and Laurie has steel rods put in her arm.
2018 - Both my parents need help. We have 24/7 care at the home to help my mom who has COPD. This is 3 shifts of a worker coming in to watch my mom, and it costs $23/hr which we write off on my dads taxes. My dad has dementia and doesn't like the 24/7 help in the house. He eventually threatens the hired help with a knife telling them to get out. The cops come and put him in a half way house.
July 28th 2018 - Father moved to an assisted living facility in Ocala because he has dementia and needs mood drugs.
Aug 25th 2018 - Mother is moved to the same facility so both can be together.
Nov 15th 2018 - Mom passes in the facility after falling and breaking her hip, plus she had COPD which was getting worse. She died in her sleep.
Since the house is empty, Laurie would drive up to clean out the house, then she moved into the house saying she didn't like living in the current neighborhood with me. My dad is still in the facility at this point. Laurie would visit him and we could see the workers were neglecting him because we had cameras in the room. Laurie was infuriated with this, often calling the workers on the phone telling them to change his diaper and his cloths. We could see the wet spots on his pants and when we visited, the room smelled like pee.
June 25, 2019, brought my father out of the facility to the same house. Laurie is living there, doing house projects and taking my dad to a doctor. He no longer needs mood drugs and is happy. She has the carpet removed and wood flooring put down so my father can push a walker. Laurie repaints the walls (hired painter she eventually fucked) and other projects such as a house water filter and roof repairs.
July 4th, 2019, last time doing it with Laurie. After this she progressively got mean to me, yet she loves my father and wants to care for him until the end.
Dec 2019 - Celebrated Christmas with Laurie and my dad at the house opening presents.
Jan 19, 2020 - Laurie's mom dies. Laurie doesn't get along with her family and has no reason to ever come back to South Florida.
Jan 2020 - Nov 2020 - We go through the whole year with me visiting every now and then and Laurie being a total bitch to me. Yet she's watching my father.
March 14th 2020 – Meeting at Bonefish Grill with myself, Ashley, and Wesley where Laurie says she’s done with me. Ashley can't believe what Laurie is saying. I don't get to talk much, Laurie keeps telling me to shut up when I respond the crap she's saying.
Nov 2020 - I find out she's dating someone. The caretaker called me as I was driving home and tells me everything. I had a feeling this was going on and even asked Laurie before this if she was seeing someone.
Jan 2021 - I have COVID, from Laurie who also gave it to Danny and my father. Laurie says she got it at Publix which is a joke. Laurie quarantines herself in her room for 10 days while I take care of my father. We both a coughing and have a cold for the 10 days. Turns out my father had COVID the day I drove up to take Laurie for the COVID test, then I got it a few days later from my father because I was wiping his nose constantly.
March 2021 - I sign up on 3 dating sites and start looking.
April 27th 2021 - I match with my GF on OKCupid
May 2nd 2021 - We meet at Pompano Beach to watch the Sunrise and go for Breakfast.
May 5th 2021 - Ate lunch at Giannia's Italian restaurant in Pompano Beach, walked at a park.
May 7th 2021 - Went on a boat ride with a co-worker, spent the night together.
See how everything slowly progressed. The dog died, my mom died, her mom died. I didn't move into the house up there because I kept my job where I live, and at the time, we were still working in the office. Covid hit in 2020, and now we can work from anywhere. I kept my job for the medical benefits, and that's what I do in life. So Laurie was up there in a retirement community playing tennis, pickle ball, doing all the activities with a caretaker in the house. Of coarse she's going to find a new guy after blaming me for everything in the past.
Find a new live in for the house? We've talked about it. If there was someone else then I could kick Laurie out and have someone else move in. My dad needs someone there all the time. The agencies are hard because different people show up and all they do is baby sit my dad. They don't get groceries or do projects around the house, and they charge $23/hr. So I'd have to move up there and do what Laurie is doing now. I did it for 2 weeks while she went on vacation in TX, and it's hard, because I always had to watch my dad. The moment I walk away, he can get up and walk himself. This happened with Laurie, my dad once fell on his face because Laurie was talking to someone and wasn't paying attention. The only time I can do anything else, is when he's sleeping, or taking nap during the day.
Move my dad into my house and watch him? My house is 2 stories and has stairs. The bedrooms are upstairs. My dad can go up stairs but it would be hard. I've have to buy a single story house and fix it up for him with grab rails and wooden floor.
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Do I still believe in the Matrix? I believe in a higher power or another dimension. To that effect, we can say I believe in God but don't believe in Religion. Therefore, my name should really be No Religion For Me (NRFM) but at the time back in the day, I said NoGodForMe.
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