Yeah, you know who you are...
I'm in that situation. While some say having small fingers and short hands is a plus because you are less likely to stumble on other strings and have an easier time playing the higher frets, I kinda think having trouble reaching 1st-3rd fret for power chords is quite frustrating :angry:
I refuse to quit on guitar because of this though. Those facing that same problem, what are your tricks/ways of improving? My hands are small, my fingers too and my flexibility is extremely limited. To give you an exemple, while playing Sunday Bloody Sunday (1st finger-2nd fret-G string/2nd finger-2nd fret-e string/3rd finger-3rd fret-B streing/4th finger-4th fret-G string), to go get that 3rd finger position, my 2nd often stumble between the 2nd/3rd fret on the e-string or doesn't press at the correct spot so I get a muted/buzzing sound instead. 4th finger got some more flexibility so I can reach the 4th fret but still, to achieve it, my hand is completely crisped around the neck and my palm almost touches the e-string which sometimes mutes the note. All this cramping/difficulty to relax and reaching frets also prevents me from getting some well hoped speed while playing. For my example, if I take time to place my fingers, I finally manage to play the notes, but when I try to play at a decent speed, I never can place my fingers on the correct frets to play the song normally.
Any advices to help a poor but hard working beginner guitar player?