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Originally Posted by nigafool
my gf is hanging out with her friends tonight. shrug.
i don't see what not wanting your gf to **** other people (in front of you or not) has to do with being a jealous control-freak.
i will admit i shared your opinion when i was younger and didn't know what it was like to actually care about someone.
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Fair enough.
It's not about being a jealous control-freak as such. I just don't see any reason to be jealous in particular?
It's a completely different situation, I think.
Like, obviously if she wants to do **** with another guy, there's all the more reason to be jealous - you're a guy, and she wants to be with another one. That kind of puts him above you. Jealous++
With a girl though.. well, why not?
It's hot.. and it's not as though she's replacing you at all - you're still the male in her life. So where does the jealousy come in? Is it just a general loss of control in general over her during sex, or just wanting her to yourself? Both of these are fine for people in a relationship I suppose.
I just don't see any reason for me in particular to get jealous. I'm still the guy in her life, you know? And if she wants to do something with me and another chick that I consider hot as ****, why not?
ed- Personally, and this is just my jealous personality talking, but I'd much rather have my girlfriend thinking/being curious about doing **** with other girls than with other men.