One of my best friends is 30. His brother is 35. The younger brother has a nice IT job. The brother works part time for my company doing Data Entry. (I Am Friends with Both but only met the older one through the younger one.)
He sleeps on his brothers counch because he cant save up enough money (spends it on Pot) to pay for a bedroom, so he pays to sleep on the coach.
His goal in life is to wait until his parents rretire, and he is hoping they will just give him 1 of their 5 properties (THey are both Blue Collar hard workers who bought 1 property each time the market dipped the last 30 years because they work hard and save every penny). Once they give him a property for free (in his head, we dont think they will), then he can live off renting out allt he rooms, and he never has to have a real job.
At 18 he went to UEI, he bailed on it, even tho he was a decent mechanic. He just has no follow through. Then he went into the Military to "straighten himself out". In boot camp when he realized there were going to "break him and remake him" and he wasnt down for that government "mind control" shit, he faked a psych conidition to get thrown out. Later he went to CEi at the same time his brother and myself did. He paid the 10g (loans) but stopped going halfway through. I am sure he justified it to himself that it was a waste of time.
That was all 8 year ago. He hasnt done anything but work as little as possible since then, while sponging off friends and family. He has 2 people left, me who is his friend/boss, but wont loan him money or let him live with me, and his brother who is about ready to throw him out.
Some people youc an bend over backwards to help. Youc an evern have their suceessfull little brother "show them" how to be a productive member of society. And some of them... they are just hopeless until they hit rock bottom.
Let him go be someone elses problem. You did your time Goshin. Don't swear him off forever, and someday you can be cool again, just dont make the mistake of trying to help him or let him take advantage of you. Good Luck.