not reading the whole thread,
that being said. here is my two cents.
Time to "man up"
you were "man" enough to make it you should be "man" enough to marry her and take care of the kid.
if this comes too late and it has already happened, i have lost what little respect i had of you.
use a fucking rubber next time.
hey hey alright 1960
whats goin on brother
catholic church 4 lyfe
edit: but in all seriousness. I don't give a shit about your respect. you dont know either of our life situations, you dont know what was going through our heads at the time. and you are certainly in no position to lecture me
why dont you read the thread and try to see where im coming from before you spout your holier than thou bullshit.
yeah, we all make fucking mistakes. mine just happens to be worse than some, but it is by far nowhere near the atrocity people have committed. i dont want to have to abort the child. honest to god. id rather put it up for adoption. and if i thought there was even a fraction of a chance id ever marry that girl, then youd bet your ass id "man" up. where did you even get it in your head i was trying to be a man?
this thread is obvious the scared and anxious ramblings of a confused and frightened child - me - who is having to deal with stopping the existance of my own child. do you have any idea what thats like? do you honestly think either of us wanted this to happen? no. but we all fuck up. being a real man is making a mistake, seeing it and realizing you made the mistake, and DOING THE RIGHT THING
the WRONG thing would be to marry this girl because of the child.
the WRONG thing would be to bring a child up by ourselves - fuck, you see how i am on TW, many have seen me in real life
the WRONG thing would be to let that child grow up knowing the only reason his parents ever got married was because of him and they dont love each other and they were never happy with the choice
please reply with your "morals" so that i can disagree with them again
everyone else here KNOWS the right thing to do is not let me have that child
and if she doesnt want to have it and doesnt want her parents to know, thats her right - its her body
let her do as she pleases