Whoops, confused mogs' emo whine for barry's (and he didnt even give one!)
Like I said, getting lvl3 in alot of the support, learning, fitting (to cram more items on your ship) and other crap doesnt take long at all. <10% of the TOTAL TRAINING TIME from 0-5 of a skill. What the asshats with multiple years have against you is about 10% more to XYZ skill than you.
All those additional skills to 4 or 5 do add up in the big picture, but you'd be surprised how little it does in focused activities like shooting your guns in a fleet fight, mining, ratting, going fast, etc.
Where that additional 5-10% more comes into play is in solo fights (dont happen much anymore) or, maybe, similarly fitted small fleets.
Other than that, you'll find yourself pretty close to most others if you're flying the right ship (Tier 2 Battlecruisers are very attainable to new people AND offer firepower that you'd normally see in t2 ships)
But hey, the adventure is in the journey, not the destination. EVE forces you approach 'exping' this way because to train all the skills in game to lvl5 would take over 25 years in real time, and that'd make any traditional MMO grinder paint their walls with brain matter.