i think you read a little too much into that
you even put apostrophes around it to make it look as if it was something I'd said
what i did mean, though, is that you'd be surprised how fucking horrible the internet can be for women, and that due to what I do I am confronted w/ this a bit more regularly than most other people (I interview people about their experiences online, basically)
and pointing this out is not being a feminist or even really anything, it's just interesting how different discourses apply to people based on fucking gender when really we should be laughing @ the hapless twat creeping all the girls out who managed to fly under the radar for so long b/c the girls he pulled his shit on didnt go public