Shadow(of)Death
Veteran X
Here is a little background on (good) Mormon culture.
We date like your Mom and Dad use to do. Or for some of you Grandma and Grandpa. You literally ask a girl on a date, often through some creative means. However I just use the phone and make the call.
A date consists of Dinner, and fun wholesome activities. Unless this is like your 5th date, you usually double date. Depending on the girl, it may be some time before you even get a kiss on the cheek. There are exceptions to this rule, but usually they are girls no one wants.
So like two months ago I meet this girl at a party. (Not the type where people are drinking and making out, but rather playing board games, guitar hero and other similar activities) Jack Nicholson comes up and this girl says she has never seen a Jack Nicholson film, didn't even know who he was! So I have a nice theater setup, so I say she has to come watch a Nicholson film at my place. She says to call her, but I don't get her number.
One of my room mates has a class with her, and I just have him set something up. She refuses until I call her. So I do, and dorky me I tell her she can bring her friends. She wanted it to be a date. I find this out through my friend, so we make it an official date.
Date went great, even though we watch a movie(lame idea for a date). We hugged at the end of the date .. . big step for a girl like her self. Last thing I said was to have a good life. Bad habit of mine. I hope she didn't take it the wrong way.
So I like this girl, and I should ask her out on another date. But at the same time, what if she was being nice and doesn't really like me? I don't know. I am lacking confidence.
Give me confidence TW. (This is going to backfire)
We date like your Mom and Dad use to do. Or for some of you Grandma and Grandpa. You literally ask a girl on a date, often through some creative means. However I just use the phone and make the call.
A date consists of Dinner, and fun wholesome activities. Unless this is like your 5th date, you usually double date. Depending on the girl, it may be some time before you even get a kiss on the cheek. There are exceptions to this rule, but usually they are girls no one wants.
So like two months ago I meet this girl at a party. (Not the type where people are drinking and making out, but rather playing board games, guitar hero and other similar activities) Jack Nicholson comes up and this girl says she has never seen a Jack Nicholson film, didn't even know who he was! So I have a nice theater setup, so I say she has to come watch a Nicholson film at my place. She says to call her, but I don't get her number.
One of my room mates has a class with her, and I just have him set something up. She refuses until I call her. So I do, and dorky me I tell her she can bring her friends. She wanted it to be a date. I find this out through my friend, so we make it an official date.
Date went great, even though we watch a movie(lame idea for a date). We hugged at the end of the date .. . big step for a girl like her self. Last thing I said was to have a good life. Bad habit of mine. I hope she didn't take it the wrong way.
So I like this girl, and I should ask her out on another date. But at the same time, what if she was being nice and doesn't really like me? I don't know. I am lacking confidence.
Give me confidence TW. (This is going to backfire)
"Have a good life?" what is wrong with you? There is nothing wrong with being sheltered if the girl is too (I assume you are both 16 ish?) but don't fuck it up with that kind of nonsense. Ask her out again; the worst she can say is no.
