my way of thinking is that there are individuals out there that you will admire so much that you won't mind the fact that you're ****ing the same hole. Seriously, when it comes down to it they all feel the same with only minor differences.
If you're feeling that you don't want that ***** for life go find one you do. Do whatever you want with the one you got now but it doesn't seem to be a keeper.
Hmm. Im similar to the first post. Married almost 13 years, and my wife was a virgin. There is zero interest in finding someone else, for either of us. Both are very happy.
Im agreeing with giga and company. If you're really in love, and attracted to your spouse, there is no need to find another.