Well, wife and I are 30. We've been married 13 years, yes, you read that right, we got married when I was 17 (she was 18, just a few months older than me). We really are best of friends, we have great conversations, she's hot, I'm working out but nowhere near snapple levels yet.
When I married her she was a virgin. Now, I love my wife, and she loves me, but I'd feel pretty gipped if I only did one chick my entire life, no matter who it was. She was a virgin because of her religion which we are no longer a part of. So, I figured I'd let her play the field a bit (and I am all about equal opportunity of course, since I'm not wanting to be consigned to the same vagina forever and ever). I actually asked the guy she's with right now if he'd do the dirty deed, which is cool because he's a good friend. He's actually a lot like me, it's weird.
It's interesting how little you hear about polyamory/swinging in the media. It's like it's even more taboo than being gay/lesbian.
Anyway after I got over the initial jealousy it was just fine. We are having the time of our lives right now; we were honest before but now we are 100% open and honest about everything and it's pretty refreshing. If I see a hot chick, I'll tell her all about it, and vice-versa. It's pretty cool.
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