Seeing as the internet helped you get winning votes, and the internet helped you get disqualified, why not start using the internet to your advantage again?
Set up a web site such as
The New Tailor Made Servers: Dedicated Servers Done Right. For You.. Post your whole story there, including all the graphs, charts, and evidence of the other side cheating that you can. Throw up a couple google ads, set up a paypal donation account, and encourage visitors to email, call, and snail mail the dealership with their opinion on the matter.
Add a section for comments and be sure to set up a visitor counter.
Then throw the link up on digg, 4chan, and any other web site you could find. Contact local news agencies as well as the dealership just to let them know what you're doing.
After a month of
really pushing to get that web site out and about, you're going to find yourself with a pro bono lawyer, a free wedding, a boned dealership, and thousands upon thousands of donated (and ad) dollars to sweeten the deal.