What do you all think of waiting until Marriage?

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Bucko

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I'm waiting until marriage, I feel that it will be better for myself, and my wife. Some people think I'm stupid for feeling this way, and others think that it's good. What do you all think of people waiting for sex until marriage?
 
yeah then you fall in love with a girl and want to marry her, but shes not a virgin. you feel like shit for the rest of your life.

just get it out of the way. i think its better for both parties.
 
oDDable said:
yeah then you fall in love with a girl and want to marry her, but shes not a virgin. you feel like shit for the rest of your life.

just get it out of the way. i think its better for both parties.
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That's what made me reconsider. My girlfriend told me she wasn't a virgin and I felt like shit, then she said she was, but just wanted to see what I would say and it's alot different.
 
I don't personally agree with it. If you've had sex, then you know you're not going to be getting married FOR the sex which I'm sure happens in some situations. You also know whether or not you can actually have good sex with your partner, which, believe it or not, will probably make or break some marriages. Really the biggest part of it for me is that I just don't see any reason TO wait, unless your partner feels they should. As long as you're safe and smart about it, go for it.
 
`O`BuCKO said:
I'm waiting until marriage, I feel that it will be better for myself, and my wife. Some people think I'm stupid for feeling this way, and others think that it's good. What do you all think of people waiting for sex until marriage?
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I THINK THAT IS A STUPID IDEA AND THAT YOU'RE AN IDIOT!!!!!!!!!!!!
(just acting like you'd want me to)

Anyway, I don't think that it really matters. You're probably not going to find a girl that has never banged anyone, anyway. If you want to do it that way, go for it. I personally don't think it's better or worse either way.
 
Hmmmmm. There's good & bad points to each argument.
A. You have more experience & feel more free to experiment if you've already done the basic requirements.
B. It'd be cool to go through the whole experience for the first time with your wife. Hopefully it'd be her first time as well.


Today, I don't think there's much of a chance finding a virgin to marry though.

EDIT: P.S. My wife was a virgin until she met me. She was absolutely horrid in bed & it's taken many years to get her to be even a little bit freaky in the sack. It has a lot to do with her upbringing also.
Definitely something to consider.
 
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Yeah my last gf of a year and a half or so was a virgin, and the fact that I wasn't was a constant source of stress in our relationship. I think its best to lose it to another virgin, and to try to avoid serious relationships with virgins if at all possible. Just too much fuel for drama in the relationship.
 
My advice would be to live together first, but since you're talking about being a virgin until you get married....I don't know how to advise you since I never did it.

All I can say is, neither my wife nor myself were virgins when we got together. We lived together for 7.5 years, and have been happily married for 5 this July.
 
Dr_Mesmo said:
My advice would be to live together first, but since you're talking about being a virgin until you get married....I don't know how to advise you since I never did it.

All I can say is, neither my wife nor myself were virgins when we got together. We lived together for 7.5 years, and have been happily married for 5 this July.
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Seriously, congradulations, thats quite an accomplishment.
 
i watched too much porn to be antisex.

but really, its truly a personal matter. I enjoy sexuality and feel its an integral part to a relationsship, so im pro-sex.

of course tho, theres advantages to the other side too. If i had to do it all over again.. its tempting to go your way because sex can blind you to ppls flaws.
 
not necessarily for marriage, just for a relationship where I feel comfortable and trusting enough in the other person to be intimate
 
i'm personally waiting until marriage too. yes it's tough and yes it sucks when all your other friends have stories of chicks they banged, but i think it'll really pay off for me in the long run. oh, and props to ya bud... good luck! :bigthumb:

i mean i still mess around with chicks and go down on girls and stuff, but i dont have sexual intercourse. and for the record, i've had the opportunity to have sex with about 4 chicks in my time (hell, my 1st girlfriend ever wanted to fuck), so it's a "by choice" thing for me.
 
How old are you, do you have a fiance, would you classify yourself as "horny".

Up to you. Personally, sex is both fun and stressful. Take my word for it, group sex is a can you dont even want to fucking open.
 
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